My boyfriend has a major problem/addiction with watching porn, nude/sex scenes on movies and shows, watching hot young girls on tiktok, Instagram, Twitter, and onlyfans. He hides it and lies about it. Should I be concerned with him cheating? What do?
07.06.2025 06:02
Oh, I hear you - that sounds like a tough situation to be in. It’s totally understandable to feel concerned if your boyfriend is spending a lot of time watching porn live, especially if he’s being secretive about it. It’s important to remember that watching adult content or following certain types of accounts doesn’t necessarily mean someone will cheat, but the secrecy and lying definitely suggest there are trust issues that need addressing in your relationship.
The best thing to do? Have a heart-to-heart talk with him. Express how you’re feeling - let him know that the secrecy is what’s really worrying you and affecting your trust. Try to approach the conversation from a place of understanding rather than accusation. Ask him to be open about his habits and discuss what each of you considers acceptable in your relationship. It might also help to discuss why he feels the need to keep this part of his life hidden - sometimes, these habits can be a way of coping with stress or other issues.